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Why did she stop texting after we slept together?
It’s a question that tons of men want answered, but many never get.
Do you know why the woman you’re trying to win over stopped texting back?
Don’t worry — I got you covered with 18 reasons why she stopped texting after you slept together and some tips that will make her miss you like crazy!
Let’s start digging, shall we?
1) She’s a player
This is a very common reason.
If you’re looking for the girl next door, you may be disappointed.
Many girls see themselves as the center of attention, so they want to be noticed by a guy that they really want to begin with.
Sometimes guys make stupid decisions and go for the wrong type of girls, just because they’re bad at reading situations and women’s intentions.
In this case, they go for the type of girl that is looking for the same thing from them — attention.
2) You’re not the right guy for her — she wants more
If she stopped texting after you slept together, it’s possible that sex wasn’t enough for her.
And you know what?
Sex makes many women feel closer to a guy because they feel like they bond on that certain level and want to recount the details with someone.
She may be looking for something deeper with you or she may want a relationship where sex isn’t the goal or focus.
It could also mean that she wants someone where she feels safe and can let her guard down around him — instead of just picking up guys off Tinder at night.
If you’re a guy who can’t promise her anything more than a good time, it’s time to move on.
3) You’re not her type
We’re sorry to say this, but…
If you’re not her type (and I’m talking about your body type here), there’s a good chance that you already know this.
This means that she probably wasn’t interested in you to begin with and she was just fooling around.
On the other hand, if it’s a guy that all of the girls are hitting on, then he might not be her type either.
Let’s face it: you can’t change her type but you can try something to attract her again.
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4) She wasn’t as into you as you were into her
Stop blaming yourself for this one — it ain’t your fault!
You might’ve invited her to sleep over, but she was the one texting you before you had sex.
If she had real feelings for you, she would have never ignored you like that.
This means that she was probably liking the attention and sex more than a real relationship with you.
5) She got what she wanted — your attention
If you weren’t really into her, she probably knew that and decided to play games with you.
As soon as you slept together and gave her all the attention in the world, she realized that there were no strings attached to you.
This was an easy way for her to get some attention from a guy that she wasn’t completely hot for, but still wanted to sleep with.
6) She’s probably dating someone else
This is a very common reason why girls stop texting after you sleep together.
If she was in a relationship with another guy at that time, she may have stopped texting to keep the both of you on the down-low (if you weren’t the other guy in her relationship).
It could also mean that she was just using you for sex — and invites.
7) She’s looking for someone who can afford her lifestyle
This is one of the most common reasons why women stop texting men after sleeping together.
While most guys want to believe that the woman they’re trying to win over was really into them, it’s more likely that she was just wasting her time because she realized that you don’t have any money.
This one is a little bit of an exception, but it can be very relatable if you think about it.
A lot of people stay in relationships with people who can’t afford them because they don’t want to pay for their own existence.
In this case the fact that she was looking at your bank account means that things weren’t really going anywhere and that made her want to break up.
8) She’s waiting for the perfect time to talk to you about everything
If she’s not texting you or doesn’t answer your calls, that means that she isn’t ready to talk about what happened between the two of you.
She just wants time to process everything that happened and figure out whether or not she still has feelings for you.
This could mean that she is hoping for more than just a one night stand, but it could also mean that she wants more of a relationship with you.
She might want some time to talk things over with her friends, so they can give her their advice on what they think would be best in her situation.
9) She was trying to see if you were “the one”
For some girls, sleeping with a guy on the first date is the most extreme thing they’ve ever done.
Pay attention!
If you’re the first guy that she’s ever slept with, and she’s been hit on by tons of other guys, that might mean that deep down inside she wants something deeper with you.
She feels like if she can go this far with you — then why can’t she go all the way? Maybe this is her way of testing to see if you are really “the one.”
10) You were a “bad boy” or you did something that she didn’t like
She slept with you because she liked you, but not liking the way you treated her after that is a big no-no.
You shouldn’t expect her to wait patiently for you to call just because you slept together.
I’m not saying that there shouldn’t be some boundaries, but if she had sex with a guy who wasn’t treating her right she’s going to do everything in her power to stay away from him.
11) You sent her a sexually explicit text
If you’ve already had sex with a girl and are hoping for more, you might be tempted to send a “sext” or two.
This is definitely not the way to win over a girl after sleeping together.
If she doesn’t want to see you again, she’ll completely disappear from your life after reading that text message.
12) She realized that you weren’t a good investment
Don’t blame yourself for this one!
I get it, she’s hot and all, but let’s be honest here — you’re not a “goal husband” (whatever that even means) for her.
That means that the things that she does (or doesn’t do) with you are things that don’t really matter to her family or friends.
When your relationship doesn’t really matter to people who are close to her, it’s easy for her to walk away without feeling too much guilt.
13) She wasn’t ready for a relationship yet
If she’s just not ready for a relationship, then you should respect that and keep it moving.
That means leaving her alone and focusing on yourself.
Don’t try to get her to like you by talking about how much you have in common (or getting stressed out) over the fact that she was seeing other guys right after you slept together!
14) She doesn’t see a future with you
Let’s face it.
When a woman really likes someone, she usually imagines what it would be like to have him in her life long-term — especially if they’ve been together for a while and things are going really well.
So, if things aren’t going well between the two of you guys, or they’re not where they are supposed to be (i.e., she sees no future with you), then she will be willing to walk away.
If this is the case, don’t take it personally — just know that your relationships might never live up to her expectations.
15) She already got what she wanted from you
Sign alert!
She may have gotten what she wanted from you — i.e., sex.
If this was a sexual relationship, then there’s a really good chance she liked it!
After all, girls love the thrill of being with their first guy.
If this was the case, she might’ve just made an excuse to end things before you got too serious — that’s how girls are, right?
16) She got tired of texting back
Most people get tired of giving back lots of text messages and returning them over and over again in order to avoid hurting someone’s feelings — this usually happens after a while if they’re not entertained.
A lot of times, women will just get tired of texting a guy.
They’ll wonder why they put themselves in the position of being in a relationship with you if they aren’t really interested in starting something with you.
She may have even put up enough resistance to see that she’s not worth it.
So, if you’re getting tired of waiting on her to text back, she might just be tired of it, too!
17) She doesn’t want her friends and her family to know you guys are dating
If she’s a social butterfly, and her friends know she’s with you, she will have to deal with them asking about you.
This can be very awkward for her if they don’t like you.
She’d rather keep her new relationship a secret from everyone around her than deal with the criticism of her friends and family.
So, if she is a private person who doesn’t like talking about your personal life, this is probably why she has stopped texting you — because it looks bad on you that she’s still in the “honeymoon stage” of your relationship.
18) She’s scared of being hurt again
A woman who has been hurt in the past by partners or men she’s dated will hesitate and be scared to rush into another relationship.
Oftentimes, this means that she’ll stop texting you back — because she doesn’t want to give you the wrong impression.
She’s not trying to play with your emotions; she just wants to make sure you’re serious about her before going any further with you.
What you should do if she’s stopped texting you after sleeping together
I know women can be confusing, but don’t worry — after reading this article, you’re going to know exactly what to do if she stops texting you after sleeping together.
So, here are a few tips on what you can do if she’s stopped texting you after sleeping together:
1) Give it some time
If this happened recently, give it some time.
In other words, don’t do anything stupid like calling her or trying to meet up with her.
You’ll need time to process what just happened and make a plan to win her back with your actions — not with your words.
So, don’t call her; just focus on yourself and get your mind right before you try talking to her again.
2) Don’t be afraid to ask a friend for advice
You might think it’s embarrassing, but you should always ask her friends for advice if you want to win her back.
For example, if she has a best friend right next to her, ask him or her what he or she thinks of her.
Even if he’s not a close friend, ask him and see what he has to say — chances are that he doesn’t know how to react to this situation and will most likely give you some good advice.
3) Don’t wait too long before you try texting her again
If she hasn’t texted you back after a few days, then you should take action — even if it means that you have to text her.
I’m not saying you should send her a “hi”, because girls usually get really angered by that.
Instead, text her something like “Let’s do X/Y project together” or “We should go on a date sometime”.
Just make sure that she is interested in doing this thing with you.
If she says “yes” then continue talking to her and start planning the date.
If she says “no”, then you’ll know you didn’t mess up and you can move on.
4) Try to get her out of her comfort zone a little
Boring is good if you want a woman to fall in love with you, so try taking her somewhere that she’s never been before.
For example, take her to a new restaurant or go see a band that she loves to listen to.
5) Get the professional relationship coach help
If you don’t want to put in the hard work of winning her back with your actions and making sure that she’s interested in seeing you at least once a week, then you should get the relationship coach help.
They will give you practical and easy steps to get back together with this girl.
Relationship Hero is the best resource I’ve found for love coaches who aren’t just talk. They have seen it all, and they know all about how to tackle difficult situations like she stopped texting you after you and her slept together.
Personally, I tried them last year while going through the mother of all crises in my own love life. They managed to break through the noise and give me real solutions.
My coach was kind, they took the time to really understand my unique situation, and gave genuinely helpful advice.
In just a few minutes you can connect with a certified relationship coach and get tailor-made advice for your situation.
6) Make sure you can handle the situation as a man
Don’t be a little boy who gives in to women and their games — do this right, or don’t do it at all.
Make sure that you have a plan and that you can handle this on your own (if she doesn’t text you back after sleeping together).
I know it’s stressful, but keep your head up and don’t be a “little girl” about it.
You’re going to need to pull this off as a man — not as a little boy.
7) Don’t get frustrated
Girls tend to get angry about things that guys don’t expect — and that happens when a guy doesn’t take action.
It’s easy for you to blame yourself if she doesn’t respond, but make sure you take responsibility for your actions.
You can only control what you do, not what another person does or doesn’t do.
Conclusion
I hope that you can use this list as an opportunity to know when to end things with a girl so that you don’t waste any time or energy trying to make something work that isn’t going anywhere.
Even if you have slept with this girl, she may not be in love with you — and that’s okay.
She needs a guy who can show her affection, respect and passion for her, which is why you should end things before she gets attached to you.
I hope that this article will help to make sense of the confusing world of women (and relationships) and make sure that you never make the same mistakes.
