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Seducing a man is a tricky skill to master, but with these ten tips and tricks, you’ll be on your way to being one step ahead of the game.
In no time, you’ll be sowing your wild oats and reaping the rewards.
Here are 12 ways that you can get him in the mood without him even knowing!
1) Keep eye contact
Eye contact is a huge component of a successful seduction, so it’s important not to break the connection.
Hold his gaze when you’re talking and don’t look down in embarrassment when he talks or compliments you.
Let your eyes do most of the talking while you concentrate on what he’s saying to you.
But also remember that not all men like eye contact, so if he breaks the gaze or looks away, just shrug it off and change the subject.
It doesn’t mean he’s not interested, and if he is, he’ll find a way to get your eyes on him again.
2) Ask him to play you his favorite song
Music is one of the most powerful tools in a seducer’s toolbox. There are a lot of ways you can use music to your advantage.
If you want to get him in the mood without him even knowing, play his favorite song for him at an opportune moment, but don’t overdo it!
You don’t want to seem arrogant or too forward.
Here’s the step-by-step process:
- Make sure you listen to his favorite song, paying close attention to all the lyrics.
- Do your research (you’d be surprised how many girls don’t do this!) about what kind of music he likes, and play it for him when he least expects it.
- Pay close attention to his reactions. You’ll know if you’re doing things right or wrong. Keep in mind that not all men like receiving compliments!
- If you’re doing something right, then don’t beat around the bush: ask him if he can play another song for you on that same instrument. Offer to help him with it if he’s having a hard time (which is usually the case).
- Slowly start getting closer until you’re sharing ear space with him.
- If he kisses you during this process, then yay! But if not, try again next time!
3) Lower your voice
An excellent way to get his attention is to lower your voice.
A deep, raspy voice can be extremely seductive and attract men like moths to a flame.
Minimal talking is also really sexy; you don’t want to overwhelm him with too much verbal stimulation, especially if he’s not a big talker.
You should also avoid giggling when speaking; try instead to hold back your laughter and respond with as few words as possible.
It will help you seem clever, mysterious, and seductive, which are all things that he will like!
But remember that this is something you should work on, otherwise it will sound forced and unnatural. Practice will help you improve on this.
4) Tease him about something he’s passionate about
When you’re trying to get a man in the mood, there’s one thing you can never do… be boring!
By getting him talking about his passions – whether it’s his favorite sports team, a particular superhero, or even one of his dream girls – you’ll easily make him fall in love with you.
This is because men love women who share their interests, and they will want to be with those women forever.
He’ll think you’re gorgeous.
This is the only way to let him know that you really do care about what he thinks and feels.
But don’t be too harsh on him! Don’t immediately dismiss his favorite TV show if you don’t like it, because it can make him lose interest in you quickly.
Instead, find something he’s passionate about that you also enjoy, and hold conversations over it with him.
This is a great way to get him to open up to you and let his defenses down.
So it all adds up to this:
Flirting with your brain, not your body, is a super-smart move because it shows that you’re not just some bimbo who’s looking for a guy to get into her pants.
5) Use physical humor
Physical humor is one of the easiest ways to seduce a guy without him even knowing about it.
It’ll make you seem more down-to-earth, relaxed, and relatable to him.
So if you’ve got a good sense of humor, try cracking a joke. It’ll be something that he remembers you by!
When he’s not expecting it, make funny faces or do a silly impersonation of someone (but don’t do an impersonation of the person sitting next to you!).
For example, you can do a good Kevin Spacey impression or even do the old Charlie Brown voice.
You can get really creative with this and add some emotional context to it by using how you’re feeling at that moment.
6) Wear perfume
Here’s the truth:
Men like to smell good.
Even if you don’t think you smell nice, you might smell great to him.
The reason why is because there are parts of the brain that control a sense of smell: the limbic system and the hypothalamus.
They’re called “olfactory pathways,” and they come from a place deep inside our brains where our emotions are controlled as well.
So if you’re trying to get in a man’s good books, then start with the sense of smell. Go to the mall and get a nice perfume that you know he’ll like.
Then spray it on your skin and clothes—but not too much! Your scent should be subtle yet noticeable, you don’t want to overdo the smell.
The next time he sees you, he’ll notice a pleasant scent emanating from your body, which will make him feel happy and even more attracted to you.
7) Remind him of your date with a shared memory
It’s very likely that you’ve had a really cool first date or a really fun night out with him, but after a while, he’ll probably forget about it.
So when you’re trying to get into his head, dig up those memories together!
You can reminisce about that one time you went swimming in the lake or that one time you decided to meet him on a whim.
You don’t want to be too forward, so try not to bring up the memory alone. Instead, ask him if he remembers it too, and bring it up casually in conversation.
It gets better if those memories relating to your relationship are positive ones.
So try to talk about the memories that evoke feelings of happiness as opposed to those that make you feel sad or bitter.
This will give you a ton of credibility, which is a huge boost to your flirting game!
8) Show vulnerability
When you’re trying to get into a guy’s head, it can be quite challenging if you’re trying to act like an invincible goddess.
That’s why it’s best that you show a little vulnerability when talking to him.
Don’t be afraid to talk about what you’re feeling – but don’t overdo it by sounding too whiny or clingy – and show him that you know how to take care of yourself.
This is a great way to show that you have confidence in yourself, which will make him feel more attracted to you because he will know that you’re a great life partner.
You can even tell him something really personal, like a secret or a fear.
Whether you’re telling him about something painful or just a minor detail about your day, this will demonstrate that you’re a trusted and reliable person.
And you’ll be surprised by how well it will go down!
9) Draw out the game with a mysterious touch
A guy will love it when you play a little game with him, and it’ll pique his interest in you.
Don’t ask him out on a date right away; instead, send him some flirty little text messages or let him chase after you by not replying to his messages until a few days later.
This is called “playing hard-to-get,” and if he’s smart, he’ll know that this is just a game.
He’ll think that if he wants you, then he has to chase after you.
It’s a great way for men to understand what you’re really about, and if he’s trying to win you over, then it’ll make him think about how much effort he has to put into the relationship.
This can be a great way of working through some issues in your relationship right away before they get worse.
And the most important thing, you can get him in the mood without him knowing about it!
10) Match their body language
One particular study has shown that being in the same emotional state as someone else (like being mad or sad) can create a powerful bond between two people.
In fact, when we’re in the same emotional state as someone else, our minds automatically try to find ways to connect with them.
So if you can get him to feel the same emotions that you are feeling, then it’ll be much easier for the two of you to resonate.
This can be done through your body language.
Here’s an example:
If you’re trying to get him in the mood without him knowing about it, try to mirror his body language.
If he’s leaning into you, lean in closer. If he’s making a relaxed face, then relax and make a relaxed face too.
Just make sure not to overdo it.
You don’t have to mirror every little detail of his body language but just mirror enough for the two of you to understand each other on an unconscious level.
11) Maintain an aura of mystery around you
It’ll be easy to get him in the mood if he feels like he’s chasing after you.
But once you two actually have a date, it’ll be harder for him to get into the “chase” mindset.
So you need to reassure him that you’re still out there and that he still has a shot of landing you.
This is done by maintaining an aura of mystery around you so he doesn’t know whether or not you’re going to show up on time.
This element of mystery can be achieved through some nifty tips:
- Show up a little later than he expects.
- Tell him that you had to meet up with someone new, but don’t let on who though.
- If it’s the weekend, tell him that you’re going to hang out with your friends, but don’t let on who they are.
- This is a way to keep the interest, and it works best if you don’t give out too much information.
- If you’re planning on going out with your friends, then just be vague about exactly what time you’ll be back and how long your night will be.
And while these tips are useful to keep his interest, they work best if hinted at the beginning of your flirting game.
12) Ask for his help
A study has shown that when women ask for help from men, it makes men feel like they have an element of control over the situation.
This can be a great way to get him in the mood without even having to say a word.
You can ask for help on things that you really don’t need help with, like an errand or something.
And this works best if you act grateful for his help.
This will make him feel rewarded and helpful as he tries to take care of you.
It’ll give him a sense of responsibility for your well-being, and don’t forget to let him win – that’s a very important part of getting anyone in the mood for anything.
Final thoughts
When you’re trying to get your man in the mood without him knowing about it, you have to be very careful.
If you don’t use these tips right and overdo it, then he’ll know that you’re trying to get in his head. And if he knows that, then it’ll take all of the fun out of the flirting game!
Go slow and trust your instincts and you’ll have him wrapped around your finger in no time.
