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If you meet one and the sparks fly, but he has feminine energy, how do you make the relationship work?
Especially when delicacy and kindness in matters of the heart are so important?
Here are 12 pieces of advice that will help you find your way through this.
Want to see how it works right now?
1) Give him the space he needs
Yes, you read that right!
When we see a man with feminine energy, it means that he has a strong lunar masculine side.
That is to say, he will be sensitive and will need lots of reassurance.
Well, this is even more important when it comes to his heart and mind, because everything is more intense for him than for us.
He’ll need to know that you’re not playing games and you’re true to him and not just taking advantage of his sensitivity.
Show him your love plainly, with actions as well as words: bring gifts or cooked food, or simply make an effort to talk more often and show him that you appreciate what he does for you (or at least try to get used to it!)
Although they can be quite deep and sensitive at times, they are probably not ready to share this with you right away – or even at all! So give them some space and be patient.
2) Make time for a long, deep conversation
A relationship coach once told me that I didn’t know how to talk to my man properly.
Well, that might be true, but I still wondered why he would need help with it!
Taking the time to have a serious conversation with your partner is important in any relationship, but especially so when you’re involved with someone who has feminine energy.
You can’t just know your partner and understand everything about him at first glance: you’ve got to learn from each other.
And this only happens if you take the time out to get to know each other properly.
If your man has a lot of love in his heart, he will appreciate you taking the time to get to know him better.
He’ll value your trust and open up more and more to you.
Of course, questions like “how was your day?” or “what’s for dinner?” are always welcome, but if there’s something really important on his mind, wait until you have time for a deep conversation.
It will mean a lot more!
3) Be adaptable and do not take everything super-literally
Men with feminine energy are not used to being around women.
This can make them overly sensitive, so they need a lot of reassurance.
They’re more in touch with their feelings and will be more likely to cry… smile… laugh… whatever!
The truth?
If you want to keep your man in a relationship, the most important thing is that you adapt to his feminine side.
This means not taking everything too literally, or following a rigid schedule.
Let him do things that make him happy with little input from you!
Of course, this is easier said than done.
Try to learn how to be more flexible about life: try things out more often (for example by changing your own habits around what he likes) and see how it goes!
4) Treat him with respect
You love him, right?
But don’t forget that he also has an inner sensitivity.
He needs to see that even though you respect him and are true to him, there’s nothing to stop you being yourself, too!
Ask him what he wants to do and make it clear that this is a joint decision. If he decides for a “date at home”, then by all means accept it.
The more time you spend together, the more secure he’ll feel about his own feminine side.
The result?
He’ll love you for it, even if he doesn’t seem to be very aware of it.
In spite of his weak Venus, he loves to be loved and seduced by a woman who is really beautiful and witty.
He’ll do everything for you in order to charm you (or at least find out whether he can).
He will treat you with extra attention and thoughtfulness, hoping that you’ll eventually fall in love with him.
And as soon as he feels more secure, he will start trying to move on.
5) Seek out the advice from a relationship coach
That’s what I recently did.
When I was at my worst point in my relationship I reached out to a relationship coach to see if they could give me any answers or insights.
I expected some vague advice about cheering up or being strong.
But surprisingly I got very in-depth, specific and practical advice about addressing the problems in my relationship. This included real solutions to improving many things that my partner and I had been struggling with for years.
Relationship Hero is where I found this special coach who helped turn things around for me. They are perfectly placed to help you with dating a man with feminine energy too.
Relationship Hero is a hugely popular relationship coaching site because they provide solutions, not just talk.
In just a few minutes you can connect with a certified relationship coach and get tailor-made advice specific to your situation.
6) Don’t push him into something he doesn’t want to do
If you like someone and you want to make the relationship work, don’t hurry him into things.
Instead of forcing him to do something he doesn’t want to do, create your own space and give him time.
As a woman, you might think that a man who is in love with you will go along with everything you suggest.
But this might not be true!
If he has a lot of feminine energy and is still learning about relationships, he will probably be sensitive about things you say or do.
He wants to be loved for who he really is, not for what you want him to be!
So if he’s not comfortable with something, just leave it alone.
In a relationship, there is a balance between things that we “want” and those that we feel able to do ourselves.
Things we are not willing to do are more likely than things we can’t resist doing because they are “too much” for us.
For example: If your man doesn’t really have much of a social life right now, it might be a good idea to offer to go out together on the weekends.
If he doesn’t want to go out with you, just let him know that this is a great place for him to hang out on his own and talk about his feelings or his past with you, if that’s something that he wants.
So if he’s not comfortable with something, just leave it alone.
7) Give him attention for his strength
When we’re in love, a man often likes to show off and display his masculinity: talking about travel plans, football matches or sports cars are good examples of this.
But don’t be surprised when he wants to show off his emotional side, too!
He needs your attention for his strong personality, but he needs it gradually.
More than anything, he will appreciate your support in all matters of the heart.
Show that you are open to receiving his strength and his emotional state.
Be aware of what he’s trying to tell you, ask him questions and just listen.
Don’t interrupt: let him talk.
After all, this is what men do best!
8) Don’t try too hard
It’s normal to have doubts about your relationship in its early stages.
We all have periods of self-doubt about our partner in life.
Sometimes it is better to have a laid-back approach in the relationship, where you don’t try too hard and put the responsibility on your man to make the next step.
But don’t try too hard to make the relationship work: just have faith in yourself, and you’ll be fine!
If you’re the one who’s always been the ‘caretaker’ of your relationship, it’s probably a good idea to let someone else pay more attention to it now.
And you know what?
Most men will recognize when your heart is open, but they won’t respond well to pressure or being pushed into saying something they aren’t ready for yet.
You’ll scare him away!
This will also force you to be more prepared for his feminine side, which can be a great help in the long run!
9) Be the kind of person he wants to be with
Yes, it’s a bit of a cliché, but it’s true.
If you’re the kind of person he can grow with and become his best self, then he’ll be happy.
He’ll like you for who you are and not just for what you can do for him!
Try to get comfortable in your own skin, even if it means shedding some of your old habits: like rearranging your living space or changing the way you dress.
Find out what makes him tick, by asking him about his hobbies or what else he’s up to.
If you want your man to stay in the relationship with you, your best bet is being the kind of person he would like to be around
This will give him confidence in the relationship and make him feel valued!
10) Demonstrate your own masculine side
Why do I say this?
Because your feminine partner might benefit from seeing that you have a strong masculine side.
If he sees that you can be tough and firm, maybe even stubborn and not easy to please, this kind of confidence is exactly what he needs.
It will make him feel safer in your relationship: he’ll feel like a man with a companion who also has strength and authority.
It will be hard for him to take lightly, so keep it up!
11) Stop trying to fix him
Don’t do it!
If you try too hard to make things perfect in your relationship with a masculine partner, he will see this as a sign of insecurity on your part.
You’ll end up being the high-maintenance one, and he’ll feel like he won’t be able to please you.
I’m sure you’ve heard this before: the people who need help in a relationship are those who are trying to fix the person they are with.
If your man thinks you’re trying to change him, he’ll have a hard time opening up and being himself.
This will make him feel less confident with you and more likely to go off and find a woman who feels safer.
You both want the same thing in your relationship: happiness.
So take a deep breath, relax, admit that you might have some doubts about your relationship… and just enjoy it!
The best thing you can do is accept him as the way he is and compromise on the things that seem too much for you.
12) Understanding feminine energy
If you have a man with feminine energy in your life, then you can probably guess what I’m going to say next.
Yes, he’s a very different man than the one you’re used to.
And yes, this is going to be a big surprise for you!
No matter how much experience or education you might have about men with feminine energy, it will take a few seconds for it to sink in when you first meet him… or even when you first get together.
You need to understand that he doesn’t act like other men and there are no rules or guidelines for his behavior.
But you should also realize that there’s a reason for it—he’s not crazy!
Men with feminine energy are just different.
They may be really nice and kind, or they’re hard to please and don’t know what he want
He might play hard to get and make you chase him all the time, even though he doesn’t mean anything serious by it.
After all, he’s a man with feminine energy!
Conclusion
If you like a man with feminine energy, then try to see the brightside in their personalities.
There’s nothing wrong with them, I promise!
A lot of people don’t understand what this means and make negative judgments about men who are not “macho” enough or too soft.
They think these men are feminine because they’re soft, but they’re actually just different.
They have a special energy and understanding of life that is hard to find in most men.
They are gentle and kind, sensitive to the world around them and easy to love!
If you want to specific advice to have a happy relationship a man with feminine energy, check out with the relationship coach I’ve mentioned before:
I hope that this article has opened your eyes and allowed you to better understand the men in your life.
And of course, if you’re already in a relationship—don’t worry!
Take a deep breath, relax and accept your man for who he is so you can get to know him better!
