A guy who’s thinking about you will show it in lots of subtle ways.
Here are 15 signs to look out for:
1) He sends you random messages all day long
This is one of the most obvious ways he reveals his emotions about you.
Text messaging is probably the fastest way to send out a quick greeting or compliment that shows what he’s thinking about you.
These texts don’t always have to be long and emotional, just fun or quirky.
He’ll find any excuse to send you a message, just because he can’t get enough of you!
It could be a meme, a short message, or even a link to an article or video, the point is that he wants you to know he was thinking about you.
He responds to every text message or email within minutes.
If he’s responding to your texts, emails, Facebook messages or calls within minutes or even seconds, it’s a sign that he’s very serious about you.
He wants to show you that he’s on a mission to keep the two of you connected every single day and doesn’t want any awkward silent pauses between the two of you.
If he doesn’t text you back, he’s probably busy.
If he misses a text message and you two are already texting then it means that he’s preoccupied and doesn’t want to bother you right now.
It means that he wants to spend time with you but just doesn’t have time right now, and that he doesn’t want to make a fuss about it.
He might be busy at a party, working on a project or just spending time with someone else.
He misses your texts because he’s busy! He wants to spend more time with you, but his schedule is so crazy that he can’t.
If he’s not into you then he’ll come up with excuses to get away from you.
He’ll make up a lie in order to get out of something or just ignore your text message.
2) He calls you more often
Teens spend more time on the phone with their friends than ever before.
The phone has become the number one mode of communication for today’s youth, especially for those who are dating.
If he calls you a lot then his feelings towards you are strong and the conversations will be interesting and long-winded.
So what does he want?
He wants to make sure that you’re doing well, and he wants to talk to you.
He wants to hear how things are going with you and what kind of day you’ve had.
He doesn’t want to miss out on any details.
He likes your company and enjoys talking to you.
If he facetimes you then this is a sign that he really wants to see you, even if it’s just for a few seconds.
The fact that he’s willing to show his face and tell you how much he misses and loves you over the phone shows that his feelings are strong.
He calls you because he misses you.
If he says, “Hey, I miss you. How’s your day going?” or “I miss your face,” he’s definitely been thinking of you.
The fact that he’s willing to spend time and energy calling you, FaceTiming you, texting you or messaging you is a sign that he really wants you.
3) He gets jealous when you talk to another guy
When a guy is really interested in you and cares about you, he’s going to get jealous when you’re talking to another guy.
He’s going to be interested in the whole conversation and even try to act like he wasn’t listening.
Jealousy is a sign that he wants you all for himself and it’s one of the ways that he can show his emotions.
If it happens once or twice, then think nothing of it.
But if it keeps happening and he seems overly-possessive about you, then that might be a trickier situation.
If he doesn’t trust you or your judgment, then perhaps he doesn’t think you’re good enough for him either.
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4) He wants you to be his Facebook status
If he’s asking you to be his Facebook status then it’s time for him to tell the world that there’s something between you two.
This is a huge step in your relationship and usually occurs around the beginning of month three.
He just can’t keep it a secret anymore and is ready to tell the world! It’s going to be up to you to let the world know that he’s in love with you.
You can do this by updating your status, adding pictures from your dates, or even posting a message on his wall.
If you’re both okay with it then why not?
He makes sarcastic comments about how much he loves you.
A guy who’s really in love with a girl will make some pretty funny, corny and even sarcastic comments about his feelings for you.
These comments show that he’s comfortable enough to be himself around you and is ready to tell the world.
If he starts making sarcastic comments about how much he loves you, then it’s time for him to take the next step and make it official.
He wants to see the feeling you share on your Facebook.
5) He asks you out every day
He’s not just texting a quick “Yo what’s going on?”
He actually wants to know what’s going on in your life and how you’re doing.
Maybe he hasn’t asked you out before and doesn’t want to appear too eager, so he’ll ask you once per day to thwart his eagerness (or yours).
The true is:
He doesn’t want to be alone.
If he texts you multiple times a day then it’s because he wants to see you or talk to you.
If he wants to see you and be with you, then this is a sign that he really likes you.
He could potentially end up being very clingy and needy, so if that’s not what you’re looking for then don’t get involved with him just yet.
He asks you to hang out unexpectedly.
If he’s asking you out to do something unexpected (rather than your usual hangouts) then this is a sign that he really likes you.
He wants to spend more time with you and doesn’t want to be left out of your social circle.
Since he likes us, he wants to make sure that he’s included in every moment.
6) He looks at you constantly
He looks at you constantly, with a certain look of longing in his eyes.
If he’s looking at you more than usual and it really seems like he can’t get enough of your presence, then he might be falling for you.
He wants to get close to you physically and will take every opportunity to do so, even if it is on the train or bus while everyone else is staring straight ahead.
He could be a little bit nervous about his feelings and so for now, the only way he can get close is by looking at you.
He’s watching you when you’re not looking, but doesn’t want to attract too much attention by staring right at you.
He finds excuses to walk past you or even just sit near you without saying anything.
He looks at you with a certain look in his eyes, as if he’s lost his way, but by the time he realizes that he’s looking at you, it’s too late.
It could be a sign that he’s interested in dating you.
7) He complains about how you don’t text back.
If a guy is showing signs of being interested in you, he’s going to be worrying about the fact that you might not want to talk to him.
He’ll try to get your attention in any way possible.
So if he complains that you don’t text him enough and acts upset or jealous when you say “not right now,” then it’s a sign that he wants to be spending more time with you.
He’ll even ask you out to keep himself occupied but he doesn’t want to lose you.
If you don’t talk anytime soon, he might be feeling desperate and get bothered by the fact that he won’t see your face until tomorrow.
Asking you out becomes a way for him to feel close to you while still keeping his end of the bargain.
He insists on taking up too much space.
8) He admits to hearing your ringtone or even loves your ringtone
When a guy is interested in a girl, everything about her becomes beautiful and perfect, even the things he used to roll his eyes at before.
He’ll admit to being annoyed by the sound of your ringtone or even love to hear it!
If he admits that he likes your ringtone then it means that he has a lot of respect for you and doesn’t want to mess things up.
He wants his heart to be protected.
9) He tells their friends about you
He has no problem telling his friends all about you when they ask him what’s going on in his life.
In fact, he’s going to brag about having a girl that’s so fun and cute!
He feels secure with you and is proud of himself for finding a good catch.
10) He says “I love you.”
Expect him to say “I love you” when the moment is right.
He’s not going to say it necessarily with any other words except that he loves you.
If he says “I love you” somewhere in your conversation it means that he doesn’t want to hide his feelings.
It means that he wants the two of you to be honest with one another, and that he’s more open than most guys are.
11) He creates excuses about why he can’t see you anymore
If he just can’t stop thinking about you and wants to get closer to you but doesn’t know how, then it seems like he’s put on the breaks.
He does this because he doesn’t want to scare you away.
He says things like, “Maybe we shouldn’t hang out so much.” Or “This is getting weird”.
But in reality he just wants to see you more! If you talk to him and reassure him that there’s nothing wrong, he’ll calm down and treat you like the princess that you are.
He starts avoiding plans with his friends just so he can be with you more often.
You may have heard that he’s “busy” or he just doesn’t have time.
This just means he’s trying to find an excuse to be with you more often without making it seem like he’s lying or doing it on purpose.
He disappears into the basement and doesn’t emerge for hours.
If he’s really thinking about you then he’ll gravitate towards places where he can be alone and spend time with you there.
If you often hang out at your house and there’s a basement, he’ll find a way to get down there and hang out by himself.
He ignores his phone or just turns it off when you two are together.
12) He’s wasting his time on you
He asks you if he can pick your outfit.
The reason is that he cares about you.
He wants to touch you and can’t help but reach out for you.
He loves the fact that he can be close to you so easily and is used to being with you.
So what does it mean?
He wants to be close to you every moment by asking you if he can pick your outfit. 13) He dresses up for you.
If he wants to be close to you and is willing to put forth effort into getting dressed up for you, then this is a huge step that he’s taking.
It means he’s not ashamed of showing his feelings or past his comfort zone.
He wants to spend as much time with you as possible.
If he doesn’t want to spend time with you, then he’ll break up with you/dump you.
He cares about you a lot and he doesn’t want to lose someone that he cares about just because it gives him more time for other things.
He always wants to be around you, and he wants to spend as much time with you as possible.
13) He’s always there for you
If he’s always there to listen to your problems and is willing to do anything and everything to make you happy, then he loves you so much.
He wants to connect with you and be near you by being there for you when you’re troubled.
He helps you get up from your seat when the train is moving.
When a guy wants something bad, then he’ll go out of his way for it in any way possible.
For example, if he wants to touch you and get close to you, he’ll be willing to jump off the train in order for you two to be together.
He stands really close to you even if there’s space beside him.
He always asks you if something’s wrong.
If he won’t stop asking you what’s wrong, then he just wants to listen to your problems and help out.
He doesn’t want you to be alone.
14) He likes your friends and family, and wants to spend more time with them
If he likes your friends, it means that they are exactly what he’s looking for in a girl.
They make you happy, easy to talk to and enjoy spending time with.
He’s not afraid of liking/loving other people in your life because it shows that he can be close to you.
He’s not afraid of getting close to other people and enjoys being around them.
He likes your family because they love you and have expressed that they have been waiting for a guy like you their whole lives.
They know what great friends you are, and the fact that he can be in your life is great for them as well.
He enjoys being around them, even if his friends may also be a bit uncomfortable or don’t know what to make of him.
15) He laughs easily around you
Not only does he laugh at your jokes, he finds them funny as well.
It means that he likes to be around people and doesn’t mind being around people in general.
He’s comfortable being himself around you without any worries.
He can be silly with you.
He always has a smile on his face when he’s talking to you.
He likes being around you, and he’s very comfortable showing it.
He doesn’t want to hide who he is with you and wants to make sure that your date is a great one.
If he makes sure that your date is fun, then it means that he wants to spend as much time with you as possible. He doesn’t want the moment to end.
He’s waiting for the moment that he can be with you and wants to make it special.
And he wants to make you smile.
He doesn’t want to ruin the evening, so he wants to make sure things are going well for you.
He loves you and wants to share his joy with you.
It’s obvious that he cares a lot about you and your date will be a great one because of it.
If he’s smiling at your jokes and being silly with you, then it means that he’s doing it because he loves being around you.
If he’s laughing at your jokes and having a good time with you, then this means that he’s doing it because it’s enjoyable for him.
So what do you need to do if you think he wants to get into you?
If you think he wants to get you into his life and possibly dates you, then you need to:
- Be confident.
- Give him a chance.
- Ask him about that.
If you’re completely sure he loves you, then go for it.
Just make sure to be confident and give him a chance.
You have to listen to him when he says that he wants this.
If he’s genuine, then there’s no reason why you shouldn’t go for it. If you think he doesn’t like you or truly wants to get into your life, then trust your instincts.
If you’ve decided to give him a chance, then you need to trust him.
You need to trust in your feelings and trust that he is a good person.
It’s not easy to get a close guy, so it’s hard to know when someone really wants it.
But even if you’re unsure that he likes you, don’t be afraid.
If you’re really unsure, then just go with your gut feeling and go for it.